"Spending time alone makes one a better companion to others."

The character of an individual greatly depends upon the surroundings in which he is, spending time in different ways would greatly affect a person in having a companionship with others. The fact that people spending time alone has its own advantages and disadvantages in respect to their behavior with others. A person who spends quality time would enjoy a better camaraderie than others.

On one hand a person who spends time alone would get an opportunity to get to understand about him to the maximum posible extent. He gets time to make a sefl analysis about his behavior and character. Indeed this self analysis would make a man understand about his place in the community and how well to move about so that he serves a better compnionship to others. This lone time spender becomes a self sustained person, he does all his work by himself and this creates a sense of fullfilment to him. He starts to tackle any conundrum in his own way and this woud help him to a great extent if he ever finds himself in a debacle. On the other hand this person may become aloof and even sometimes get gloomy if he hits a setback in life. This would mostly result in a situation where he is lured by the narcotics. In a study many lone of lone time spenders end their life themself. This surely will not make a person who is prefered when it comes to companionships.

Spending time together with other people in surroundings is a good way to get better companionship. But there lies a tight corner where one must be careful in choosing the right company. If the company is going to be a ill one then this person is at risk of loosing good character. This makes it difficult for him to move about witha some group of people having a good attitude and character. He may sometimes be called the rotten apple or the black sheep of a healthy lot. This surely is not going to help him make a person having a affable character. As the proverb goes "The greatest sin a parent can do to their child is to let him sibilingless" , spending time together with someone gives a edge in socialising with others.

It is seen that one of my class mate who spends time alone was really finding time to do really well in his studies. He had that abundant time to do all the exceptional things which helped him to secure a good rank, but when it came to relationships he was a failure. He found it very hard to cope up with others in a group when he was doing a laborotary class. Some of our class mates liked him and some did not. This proves that he was not having the ability to have give good companionship to others. But there are also people who spend time in groups and also find it difficult to give a good companionship to all the peple he steps by.

The fact of spending time alone or in groups is not the factor which makes one a better companion, but the fact how the time is spent really matters. A lone time spender may have the best possible companionship with others as he in need of one, but also a person always spending time in groups can be the most deadly companion to others. Thus the qulality of time spent,
the congenital character of the person and the response by his peers are the factors which makes a man a better companion